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Az Hakeem zu Detransition und Reue:

„The public are often told that relative regret is extremely low. But this of course is a complete fiction. There are no follow-up studies, no one knows what the regret rate actually is and this low rate results from the lack of any information being collected. The patients I saw did not officially exist in any gender identity clinics’ books."

Im Interview wird auch darüber gesprochen, wie bewusst euphemistisch die Sprache bei Trans-Themen oft benutzt wird:

„It's the way it's portrayed. So rather than calling it chemical castration, you're calling it puberty blockers that pause puberty. Rather than saying you're going to amputate the breasts of girls, you're saying it's top surgery. You know that is sanitized. And rather than saying you’re not even going to explore why they feel that they’re the wrong sex, you're calling it affirmation therapy. Affirmation sounds positive, doesn't it? Affirming sounds great, but affirming means you're not asking them‚ ‚Oh, why do you not like being a boy?‘‚ ‚Why do you not like being a girl?‘, which is the obvious question. Affirmative though is yes, because your body's wrong, well this is what we can do. So affirmative is collusion, whereas exploration is always helpful: you know with any problem think about it and explore it."

Dr. Az Hakeem, Facharzt für Psychiatrie, forensischer Psychotherapeut und Gruppenanalytiker, spricht mit Abdullah Boulad über Psychiatrie, Genderdysphorie, Identität, Trauma, Psychotherapie, Autismus, Burnout und die Bedeutung kritischen Denkens in der psychischen Gesundheitsversorgung

Understanding Gender Dysphoria and Identity: The Connection to Autism | Dr. Az Hakeem, YT, 02.07.2026

Einige Ausschnitte zum Thema „Genderdysphorie" aus diesem Podcast:

Genderdysphorie und Autismus

„What I found was that the transsexual males, so the ones who were certain that they wanted to be women, were all autistic, all of them. … What I found was that all 100% of what of the males who would formally be called transsexual are on the spectrum. Totally 100% 100% 100%. I was the first person to say that's true and it differs from the female to male transsexuals."

„So what I found was the degree of autism predicted whether or not they'd regret it later. So if they were really quite autistic, and they really believe that by having a wig and long hair and a dress and lipstick that people believe that they're a woman because they got a female name and pronouns, then they might be happy because people just humouring them saying, 'Oh yes, she, her, what Janet.' and they might accept that. But it was the ones who weren't that autistic that they started off with gender dysphoria, then they go to trans­gender euphoria and then because they didn't have enough protection, waterproofing from enough autism. They then had this sense of what if they don't really believe that I'm a woman. And they were the ones who regretted it."

„So not everybody autistic becomes transsexual, but if you're autistic, and you don't know you're autistic, but you feel different pelvic different to your peers, and then you come across the concept of being trapped in the wrong body. It might appeal to you. That's when they and being autistic, they hone in on it. They become blinkered and they run with it."

Ist Gruppentherapie sinnvoller für Menschen mit ASS?

„So what I found is if you're doing therapy with an analytic therapy thoughtful challenging therapy with someone who's autistically trans a transsexual it's very difficult because you get into a 'yes no', 'right wrong', 'male female' like a pantomime so that's why I did group analysis."

Das Verständnis von männlich und weiblich erweitern

„So you know I encourage being people to be subversive. You can wear what you want. You can wear make, that doesn't mean you're the wrong sex. You know my point is nobody is wrong. You can do what you want. And I wanted them to increase their repertoire of what it was to be male or female."

Das Verhalten von Kindern nicht in Schubladen packen

„You know, I think I had like 26 dolls as a child. Like doesn't mean I was a girl. I think anything the child does or is fine. If he would like to wear a fairy costume, or she would like to be a tank driver, it's fine. That doesn't mean they're wrong, they're the wrong sex. So I encourage my patients to be more subversive, just be a bit more creative and just expand the repertoire – and the rules don't exist. That's a social construct. Anything you do is fine. So, it's so from a parenting thing is to allow everything without inviting them to think that there's a problem. So I've got friends who say that that their children who may be you know a bit tomboy or a bit camp or whatever are invited by the teachers. These 8 or 10-year-old children are invited to consider whether they should be trans because the teachers, have been brainwashed. The teacher saying to a child 'do you think you should be a boy because you like football' and this, that and the other. And then they are planting these ideas into the children's head, you know, that's what I'm saying, it's like one child by proxy transoms by proxy, you're creating problems. If you just leave the children alone, they're fine."

Affirmative Therapie ist Komplizenschaft 

„You know, there's this thing called affirmative therapy. It's not therapy. It's collusion. So, if a child says, 'Oh, I think I'm a penguin.' They go, 'Oh, yes, you are a penguin.' And they collude with the false notion. So, it's a misnomer. It sounds good. Affirmation sounds good and positive. It actually just means collusion. And because it's called therapy, people think it's a good thing."